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The Creative Mindset: 5 Excuses to Avoid if You Want to Be Creative

April 1, 2019 by Clara Nartey 6 Comments

Hey creative friend,

My exhibit – “Drawn with Threads” ended just last Saturday.  It showed extremely well and I’m so happy with how it turned out. Being in the library twice a week was a great opportunity for me to hear from a ton of people.  And what I want to tell you right now is, if you want to be creative you’ve got to avoid certain mindsets. So, we’re going to talk about what a true creative mindset is not.

the creative mindset | 5 Excuses to Avoid if You Want to be Creative

Today, I just need to give you some tough love. Because I’ve heard from so many people these past four weeks and the pattern is the same over and over again.

The pattern is like this. After admiring my work, the interview to validate why they couldn’t possibly create the kind of work I do begins.  You know, that quest to find excuses? Yes!! That’s what I’m talking about. We’ve all done it before – myself included.

The interview questions are usually one of these:

The Creative Mindset: 5 Excuses We Make

  1. You must have gone to art school, right? 
  2. You own an expensive or computerized sewing machine, huh?
  3. Was your mother/grandmother a quilter?
  4. Did you start drawing when you were a child?
  5. You certainly knew how to draw before you started working in textiles, huh?

Well for the record, the answer to each and every one of these questions is a big NO!!!

But I recognize the sentiment behind these questions. “NO” is not the answer you want to hear when asking these questions. Because what you truly want to hear is that I have something you do not have that accounts for why I’m creative and you’re not.

All I want to say is, Enough with the excuses”.

We’ve allowed ourselves to believe this myth that some people are creative while we are not. And to make our beliefs valid, we keep searching for excuses why we can’t create just like “the creative people”.

So, to be clear, the real intentions behind the interview questions I kept getting at my exhibition were these: I can’t do what you do because:

The Creative Mindset: What the Excuses Really Mean

  1. You went to art (a fancy) school and I didn’t
  2. You have a superior sewing machine (or tool) than I do
  3. Your family has the creative gene and mine doesn’t
  4. You were born creative and I wasn’t
  5. You started young and I’m too old to learn

Enough with the excuses already. I’m living proof that you can be creative without checking any of these boxes. I get so passionate when I see people trying so hard to make themselves believe they cannot be creative. I can’t say this enough – you are creative. SIMPLE.

We’ve all got creative potential. The difference between the one who seems to be creative and the one who isn’t – is simple. One chose to explore what they ‘ve got and the other decided what they’ve got was not good enough.

You are enough.  You are worth the time and effort you need for developing yourself. Creativity is a skill you can develop. If you can learn to read and write, then you can learn to be creative.

Creative friend, it doesn’t take much.  You don’t need fancy tools and training from fancy schools.  You’ve got what you need to start.  You’ll only discover what you really need to get better at when you take that first step and start.

These 5 excuses will hold you back from becoming your creative best. Avoid them all. So, enough with the excuses. Get into the right creative mindset. You don’t need to check off boxes before you become creative.

Take that step now. It’s never too late. Start small.
Love you.

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Comments

  1. Sita Dubeau says

    April 1, 2019 at 10:31 am

    Hi Clara,
    You are totally right…it can be easier to justify why one does not participate in creative work than to actually put needle to fabric, pencil to paper, etc. This is a bit like the observation that it is almost always easier to edit someone else’s writing than to start writing oneself. And you are totally right that starting small is a very good objective. Have you visited textile.org and/or seen Sue Stone’s embroidery and design work? Inspirational. I just watched the 3 video clips that lead in to her online course and found her experimentation in textiles ideas are SO helpful!
    I am very happy to hear that your exhibit went well and I looking forward to hearing more. Thank you for your inspiring blogs and work !

    Reply
    • Clara Nartey says

      April 1, 2019 at 11:40 am

      I like your analogy, Sita. It’s easier to edit someone’s work than to write yours. But if you really want to be a writer you better face the truth and realize the only way to do it is to start putting pen to paper.

      Reply
  2. Jo Vandermey says

    April 1, 2019 at 10:50 am

    Spot on!
    “Do. Or do not. There is no try.” Yoda in The Empire Strikes Back
    My inner geek matching up with my inner creativity!
    Thanks for the reminder.

    Reply
    • Clara Nartey says

      April 1, 2019 at 11:28 am

      You’re most welcome, Jo.

      Reply
  3. Charlotte Mullen says

    April 1, 2019 at 11:30 am

    I hear this all the time when I do talks at quilt groups. I try to explain that it is a matter of just doing it. Practice in any type of art endeavor is the key. 10 – 15 minutes a day helps to keep your mind going and gets the creative process going. Pick up scraps and stitch them together and play with color and patterns. Let your inner child come out and play once in a while. Pretty soon your inner child who isn’t afraid of trying anything takes over and you will be amazed at the fun you have.

    Reply
    • Clara Nartey says

      April 1, 2019 at 11:32 am

      I totally agree with you Charlotte.

      Reply

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